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Planning a wedding can be hard. Being a bridesmaid can sometimes be harder. Between the friendship rifts, the money concerns, and the (sometimes) terrible dresses, things can get pretty dramatic pretty quickly. But we’re here to tell you that it is possible to plan a kick-ass 2024 bachelorette party without drama.

First and foremost, it’s important to establish the significance of your role as a bridesmaid. Ultimately, your job is to be a support system for the bride. So whether you’re planning the event or simply attending it, be sure to go in with a positive attitude! Here’s how to plan a 2024 bachelorette party without the drama and stress.

With that being said, we also recognize that a positive outlook will only get you so far. After all, we can’t count on other people to react the same way in tough situations. So, here are 2 fool-proof tips for planning a bachelorette party without the drama.

1) Google Forms Is A Magical Tool

Believe it or not, Google Forms is useful for more than just filling out class surveys when you’re in college. It’s actually a really invaluable resource in the case of planning a bachelorette party. Or being a bridesmaid in general!

One of the biggest stressors surrounding these events is the issue of money. It’s nearly impossible to plan a bachelorette party where everyone’s budget is the same. Some people may be going through a rough patch financially, while others may find themselves to be quite comfortable. This disparity is the quickest way to make lots of people feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, or worried about what is supposed to be a really fun event.

A great way to determine where everyone is financially is to create a Google bachelorette questionnaire. Why? Because it’s anonymous.

2024 Bachelorette Party Without The Drama

Using a Google Form, the maid of honor (or designated bachelorette party planner) can anonymously survey the crew. You can ask questions such as:

1. How much are you comfortable spending?
2. Are you willing/able to travel?
3. Are you able to travel internationally?
4. Can you pitch in for the bride’s expenses?

These bachelorette questionnaires can also be customized to account for whatever is relevant to your friend group. You can even opt to show the money in ranges, such as in the example below

EXAMPLE QUESTION:

“ For the bachelorette party, I’m comfortable spending…”

A) $100-300

B) $300-500

C) $500-1000+

D) Other (fill in the box below)

What’s so great about these bachelorette Google forms is that they allow everyone’s vote to be counted and included without the awkwardness of disclosing individual financial situations. Once you get your results from the bachelorette party questionnaire, be sure not to single out any one person for having a smaller budget than the rest of the group. Do your best to accommodate what everyone can comfortably afford. Ultimately, this is what’s going to make the bachelorette party fun and stress-free!

2024 Bachelorette Party Trends

Here are some of the hottest bachelorette party trends for 2024, you can use your Google form bachelorette party questionnaire to determine which one is the favorite.

1. Destination Experiences:

Bachelorette parties often involve travel to exciting destinations. In 2024, there might be a trend towards more unique or unconventional locations, such as off-the-beaten-path destinations or eco-friendly resorts.

2. Wellness Retreats:

As wellness and self-care continue to be important trends, bachelorette parties might incorporate activities like yoga retreats, spa days, meditation sessions, or healthy cooking classes.

3. Adventure Activities:

Adrenaline-fueled activities like zip-lining, rock climbing, or white-water rafting could become more popular for bachelorette parties seeking an adventurous experience.

4. Eco-Friendly and Sustainable Celebrations:

With increasing awareness of environmental issues, there might be a trend towards eco-friendly bachelorette parties, including activities like beach clean-ups, sustainable dining options, or eco-tourism experiences.

5. Tech Integration:

2024 bachelorette parties might incorporate technology in new ways, such as virtual reality experiences, personalized apps for coordinating activities, or social media challenges and games.

6. DIY Workshops:

Creative and hands-on activities like pottery classes, mixology workshops, or DIY craft sessions could be popular for bachelorette parties looking for unique and memorable experiences.

7. Themed Parties:

Themed bachelorette parties have been popular for some time, and in 2024, we might see more elaborate or niche themes inspired by popular culture, historical periods, or exotic locations.

8. Culinary Experiences:

Food-focused bachelorette parties might include experiences like cooking classes, wine tastings, food tours, or private dining events at trendy restaurants.

9. Personalized Experiences:

Bachelorette parties in 2024 could become more customized to reflect the interests and personalities of the bride and her friends, with activities tailored to specific hobbies or passions.

Focus on Connection and Bonding:

Regardless of the specific activities, the underlying trend for bachelorette parties in 2024 might be a focus on meaningful connections and bonding experiences, creating lasting memories with close friends before the wedding.

2) Less is more

The temptation to pass on an “obligatory” invite to every woman associated with your friend group can be very real. You may find that a friend of a friend is expressing interest in attending your bachelorette party, or perhaps that your future in-laws are trying to pressure you into inviting someone that you don’t particularly want there in the first place.

Know that it’s okay to want this day to be about you! When it comes to planning your wedding, you are NOT obligated to invite people that you don’t particularly care for. Saying “yes” for fear of making things awkward with a “no” might be a little bit uncomfortable at first. Though I can assure you that you will feel much freer only having the people that you actually want there.

A short but thoughtful text explaining that arrangements have already been made for the event should suffice. Be gracious, but remember to stand firm as well.

There you have it, ladies! Some simple but extremely effective tips for making your bachelorette party a fun and stress-free occasion for everyone involved. Be sure to check out The Princess Cut for more information and inspiration for planning your wedding.

Looking for more ways to save money while being a bridesmaid? Check out our fabulous post on “How Not To Go Broke As A Bridesmaid.”

Guest Post Contributor: Diana from The Princess Cut

Author Bio: 

The Princess Cut is a luxury wedding blog dedicated to providing inspiration and guidance for modern couples. The blog’s founder and editor, Diana, has a deep passion for weddings and a desire to share her experience as a former bridal stylist (and general wedding connoisseur!) to all who may benefit from it.