Lavender & Lilac wedding arch by Dawn Weisberg of Tularosa Flowers, wedding florist

How to Find a Wedding Florist That’ll Make Your Big Day Bloom

Choosing a wedding florist can feel like picking your favourite dessert from an endless buffet. Sweet, yes—but also overwhelming! Flowers are the unsung heroes of a wedding, adding personality, elegance, and that pinch of magic to your big day. So, how do you narrow down the options and find the one? Let’s break it down step by step.


Start with Your Vision

Before diving headfirst into Google or Instagram, take a moment to clarify your wedding floral dreams. Are you picturing wild, bohemian arrangements bursting with greenery? Or do you lean toward crisp, modern wedding bouquets in classic whites? Knowing your vibe will make the search much easier.

Pro Tip:

Pull together a Pinterest board or create a mood board with your favourite flower designs. Don’t worry if it’s a mishmash—the florist for your wedding will help refine the vision later!


Do Your Research

Once you’ve nailed down your style, it’s time to find florists who can bring it to life. Start local. Search for wedding florists in your area and dive into their online portfolios. Instagram and Pinterest are gold mines but don’t forget good old-fashioned Google reviews.

Questions to Ask Yourself:

  • Do their past weddings align with your aesthetic?
  • Are their arrangements fresh, creative, and high-quality?
  • Is their style versatile or specific to a certain look?

If a florist checks these boxes, add them to your shortlist.


Set a Realistic Budget

Flowers are gorgeous, but let’s face it—they’re not cheap. On average, wedding flowers can gobble up 8-10% of your overall budget. Once you’ve crunched the numbers, communicate your budget early to avoid surprises down the road.

Things to Include in Your Budget:

  • Bouquets and boutonnieres
  • Ceremony decor (like arches or aisle runners)
  • Reception centrepieces
  • Extras, such as flower crowns or petals for your flower girl

Money-Saving Tip:

Seasonal blooms are usually more affordable, so ask your florist for recommendations on what’s in season during your wedding month.


Schedule Consultations

Think of florist consultations as first dates—you’re testing the waters to see if there’s a connection. Most florists offer a free or low-cost consultation where you can discuss your vision and ask questions.

Questions to Ask During a Consultation:

  1. Have you worked at my venue before?
  2. Can you work within my budget?
  3. How do you handle last-minute changes or substitutions?
  4. Will you set up and tear down, or is that my responsibility?
  5. Do you offer rentals (like vases or arches), or do I need to provide those?

Pay attention to how the florist responds. Are they genuinely excited about your ideas? Are they patient and willing to collaborate? The right florist will make you feel like a floral queen, not just another client.


Look for Professionalism

While artistry is key, logistics matter, too. Weddings are a whirlwind; the last thing you need is a florist who can’t stick to a schedule or forgets key details. Check their reviews for mentions of timeliness, professionalism, and reliability.

Red Flags to Watch For:

  • Poor communication (slow responses or vague answers)
  • Hidden fees
  • Negative reviews with consistent complaints

Trust Your Gut

Sometimes, you just click with a vendor, and that gut feeling matters! If a florist feels like someone you’d grab coffee with, that’s a good sign. After all, you’ll work closely together and want to enjoy the process.


Lock It Down

Once you’ve found your dream florist, book them ASAP! Florists—especially the good ones—book up quickly, particularly during peak wedding season.

What to Confirm in Your Contract:

  • The total cost, including deposits and final payments
  • What’s included in the package
  • Cancellation or refund policies
  • Delivery, setup, and teardown details

Bonus Tips for a Smooth Process

  1. Be Open to Suggestions: Your florist knows flowers better than anyone. Trust their advice on what will look best and hold up throughout the day.
  2. Bring Inspiration, Not Exact Replicas: Florists are artists, not copy machines. Share your ideas, but let them put their own spin on the design.
  3. Communicate Clearly: The more details you share (colours, guest count, venue layout), the better equipped your florist will be to nail your vision.

Finding the perfect florist might take a little legwork, but it’s worth it when you walk into your venue and see your floral dreams come to life. Remember: your flowers should reflect your style, make your heart happy, and bring your wedding vision to full bloom. Now, go forth and find your flower BFF!

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