What Is A Micro-Wedding And How Does It Differ From Eloping —Is Either Right For You?
Micro-weddings are a dynamic take on the traditional wedding concept. You probably can have it all and more but you would need to shrink the scale of the wedding itself. Traditional weddings are a mountain of expenditure on two hundred plus guests, many of whom don’t care that much about you.
Furthermore, what if you’re the type of person who wants to enjoy the company of select friends and family? For many such couples a tight-knit, cozy and intimate gathering is a delightful and memorable solution to the many months (if not years) of hassle shopping, planning, and needless spending that accompany the regular wedding train.
To Elope Or Not To Elope?
Contrary to popular opinion, micro weddings are not technically an elopement. While the exact details may vary from couple to couple, the general idea is to be quite secretive about the whole affair, normally giving maybe only a couple of days’ notice to the guests.
Not to mention the guests are normally in 15-20 number, in some cases going only to a maximum of 50 people.
Your boss at work may feel offended she wasn’t invited, although that is partially the purpose of a micro-wedding, right?
Is It Right For You?
Each couple is different and so are their priorities. Some women save up for years for the perfect wedding and count it as an achievement unlocked. Others live minimally and don’t see the exact point of an extravagant affair with a lot of people with whom they have little personal attachment.
Your relationship style and individual personalities will count into this decision as this is something you need to decide together. If you feel micro-wedding fits in with your principles and life ethos, the great part is that it is something you can whip up in even a few days if need be.
Maximum Personalization, Minimum Expenditure
Ever wanted to give elaborate trinkets or something special to every single guest who attends your wedding? For a large scale or regular-sized wedding, this simply is not affordable. However, if you’re looking at 15 or 20 people you could give them all something special that they can cherish for years to come. It might even become an heirloom!
As Quirky As You Want To Be
Ever dreamt of a Star Wars-themed wedding? Well, now’s your chance. With a micro-wedding, you can be as weird and nerdy as you like and even get married in a costume. Since the gathering will only consist of people who know your eccentricities well, you’ll be gloriously comfortable and let’s face it, the pictures will be far more memorable.
Celebrate Your Other Half
Regular weddings have scores of unpleasant people simply because inviting them is unavoidable. But a wedding is supposed to be about your other half preferably without the presence of dubious onlookers. Many Instagram-worthy micro-weddings take place on beaches or farms with simple twinkle lights, flowers and candles and the two blessed souls who profess their love to one another forever.
Couples are choosing micro weddings over large and lavish events because they want to experience a more intimate setting. Doing this allows them to celebrate their love story and spend more time with their guests.
